There has to be some perfect equation where all possible variables in some extremely large equation balance out. I have a good job, my wife and son live in a decent and safe neighborhood. I've never had more access to ways to improve my education and further my career.
Not everything is roses. We're fed, safe and clean - but most extra is taken in paying people back from the move. Work didn't payout all of our expenses - we've been paying people back piecemeal, but it sucks anyway.